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Parenting Safety

My neighbors thought putting dead bolts on the backyard gate was pretty strange, and they really flipped out when I went outside with my toddler attached to my wrist with a bungee cord. But I didn't want him getting out of the yard if I had a seizure. When I explained, hey agreed it made sense -- for anyone.

If you have frequent seizures and you are responsible for other who depend on you, such as children or the elderly, you may want to consider ways to reduce any risks to them, as well as yourself, if you have a seizure.

As you go through your daily activities, think about what could happen if you were unable to react for a short time.

Sometimes, there will be no additional risk -- at other times there may be. Then you will want to consider what extra safety precautions you might take for yourself and your family.

In may cases, you'll find the safety steps involved are not so different from what all parents do.

• First, like other parents, you will want to child-proof your house as much as possible.
  
  
• If you are nursing a baby, or giving him a bottle, sit on the floor or bed, with your back supported. That way the baby should be protected from falling very far if you should lose consciousness.
  
  
• Feeding the baby while she's seated in a stroller or infant seat may work for you. Toddler seats and small feeding tables can be used as a child grows.
  
  
• Dress, change and sponge bathe the baby on the floor, using a portable changing pad.
  
  
• Move the baby around in a stroller or small crib that can be wheeled easily from one room to another.
  
  
• Keep a young baby in a playpen as much as possible when on your own; keep a toddler in a larger enclosure, or indoor play yard.
  
  
• Another approach is to childproof a room and use toddler safety gates at doorways and stairs to keep him from wandering away.
  
  
• Keep your epilepsy medicine out of the reach of all children.
  
  
• When out shopping or walking, tie your hand to your child's with a bungee-type cord or have the child wear a restraint harness so that he or she can't wander away if you have a seizure that affects your awareness.
  
  
• As your child grows, explain your seizures in words he can understand and won't frighten him.
  

As a mother with frequent seizures I was very concerned for the baby, but I managed to keep things simple. When he cried, I'd hold him while sitting on the floor. That's how I fed and changed him, too. I'd wait to bathe him until my husband was home. Then we'd both give him a bath, which was fun. As he grew older I never let him see me take my medicine, because I was afraid he'd think it was candy and try to get some.

• Teach your toddler how to call a neighbor, relative, or friend if you have a major seizure. Put the phone numbers in big bright colors near the phone Teach your child how to call 911 and give your home address.
  
  
• Better yet, pre-program your phone to automatically contact the local rescue squad (or other source of help) or page a family member or friend. Then teach everyone in our family how to use it.

 

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Disclaimer

This information is based on common experience. It does not reflect the level of risk or need for safety measures of any individual. People vary in their need for safety measures and readers with seizures are warned not to base lifestyle changes on this material without first consulting a physician.

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